Avoid all means to pursue hurting others. It is never right to bring pains to them just because you were pained.
A lot of things may have had happened that hurt you, but don’t let these make you unkind to others. Never mirror your anguish to someone subservient to you just because of your superiority. Let out your very nature to help and not to destroy; to assist and not to let fall; to understand and not to forsake; to accept and not to shun; to forgive and not to condemn; and to love beyond all measures. These are precious priceless gifts that you can share that will forever be a memoir for others to cherish all the days of their lives. Let your wrath be overwhelmed by your innate affection to embrace rather than to inflict harm. God gave you a heart to love and not a stone to throw. Let it beat compassion. It surely will.
The sadness in your journey can only be vanquished when you let out that beauty of goodness within you.